How to be Smarter: Helpful, funny tip for Skype interviews.
How to be Prettier: My current favorite concealer is L’Oreal Paris Visible Lift Serum Absolute Concealer. You can buy it at any drugstore, it lasts for hours, and the pen-shaped brush makes application easy.
How to be (less) Awkward: Not awkward, just adorable: Unicorn Name Generator.
How to be Smarter: The Not-So-Secret Path to Greatness.
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How to be (less) Awkward: If you are going to attend a Halloween party, you have to at least attempt to wear something thematic. The costume does not need to be expensive or elaborate, but taking a few minutes to grab a pair of cat ears or donning a cowboy hat tells the hostess you are aware of and appreciate the effort she had put into throwing a themed bash.
How to be Smarter: One of the best times to get a reservation at a busy restaurant is usually on a Monday night.
How to be Prettier: Next time you are buying floss, grab an extra pack to keep at your desk at work. A pack of floss won’t take up much space in a desk drawer and even if it is rarely touched, there will be that one time that you wish you had floss, and you will be grateful you thought ahead.
How to be (less) Awkward: Not awkward, just awesome: A funny, clever eBook about dating: All My Friends Are Engaged by Jen Glantz. I read this on a Sunday morning and was giggling the whole time; it would be a perfect read for your commute or while traveling.
How to be Smarter: Book Recommendation: 168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think by Laura Vanderkam. The subtitle of this book is alone reassuring: you have more time then you think. A great read on the best ways to structure your 168-hour week so that you have time for all that you have to do and all the things that you want to do. Practical, reasonable, and very interesting, this is one of my favorite time management books I have ever read. [I also loved Vanderkam’s book other book, What the Most Successful People Do Before Breakfast].
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How to be (less) Awkward: When you think of something thoughtful to do [“it would be nice to send her birthday flowers,” “he would probably like me to text him ‘good luck’ tomorrow,” “I should email how much I liked seeing her this weekend”] write it on your to-do list that instance. Doing something sweet is just as [I might argue much more] important than anything else on your to-do list.
How to be Smarter: How to Make Time For Your Side Hustle. [Great tips from Caroline, a super-talented photographer who took the photo of me on the right hand side of my main site].
How to be Prettier: Before buying new glasses, google a few articles about your face shape [square, heart, oval, round, etc.] and what sort of frames usually work best on it. This 5 minute search can make it much easier to know what types of frames to begin looking at when you start trying on styles at the store.
How to be (less) Awkward: It can be confusing if you hear someone being called a name other than the name they used when they introduced themselves. But in general, the way that someone introduces themselves to you is what you should call them unless or until they correct you [which they might as you get to know them better].
How to be Smarter: Common writing mistakes and how to fix them.
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How to be (less) Awkward: Double-check someone’s name is spelled correctly before sending an email, especially if it is the first time you are contacting them. Usually their name is in the email address, and the extra two seconds it takes to check helps makes a smoother first impression.
How to be Smarter: Great tips for writing productive email subject lines.
How to be Prettier: Keep your house tidy with this trick: “Clean while you’re on the phone. Whether it’s doing the dishes, swishing the toilet, Swiffering the floor or feather dusting the counter tops, this is a simple way to multitask. Bonus: no mindless phone eating.” — Quote from this piece, which has 14 other ways to keep your life saner.
How to be (less) Awkward: Not awkward, just adorable: Contagious Subway Laughter.
How to be Smarter: I love the format of Muse University classes: one email a day for 7 days, hyper-focused on a specific career-related topic with lots of helpful links [completely free].
How to be Prettier: Let other people’s healthy habits rub off on you. Be open to trying quinoa if a friend is ordering it for dinner, try running if your significant other goes every weekend, and if you co-worker guzzles water all day, join them on their trips to the kitchen to refill. Letting someone else’s positive habits rub off on you has a two-fold benefit: you start making even more smart healthy living choices, and you have someone to ask questions if you get stuck [“what kind of dressing should I get on this kale salad?”].
How to be (less) Awkward: Thoughtful advice for how managing feelings after a big life change.
How to be Smarter: When you ask for help, ask for something specific. It is easier for someone to help you if they are given a specific project, item, or task to focus on. “I really need some help around here!” is a lot harder request to fulfill than “could you help me by chopping these vegetables?”.
How to be Prettier: This article has many ideas for how to pare down your stuff to beautify a room. [My favorite is the last one, “Opt for a Trial Separation.”].
How to be (less) Awkward: Great examples of smart questions to ask in a job interview.